DORAMP

  A lot of good friendships have come to an end due to selfishness. Friendships that could go a long way to support each other.  Friendships that give comfort, healing and warmth from the pressures of this life. Friendships that give a sense of direction in this crooked life. These unique kind of friendships have come to an abrupt end due to the self. The self that is insatiable. The self that seeks only its own. The self that only wants to do things its way all the time. The self that won’t succumb to any change regardless of the changing scenes of this life. A little adjustment which may be temporarily uncomfortable to the self won’t be tolerated by the self. The self that enjoys its way of doing things from day one and will not change to accommodate anyone or anything else. The self that does not look at the future and what good the future will bring. The self that is stuck in the past and the old way of doing things. The self that won’t tolerate the slightest change; h...

One of the most difficult people to live with are those whom you cannot tell who they really are or what they really want. Double standard people. People of many shades. You cannot tell their real intentions or what they really feel about you. I believe it will be much easier to live or co-exist with someone if you knew who they are or what their intentions are. That way, you are well able to move around them freely and easily. People of many shades or double standard people are difficult to please. The difficulty in pleasing those lies in the fact that you cannot tell who or what they are; in order to make provision for that ‘who’ or ‘what’. You can only try to do something and hope that it meets their expectation. Most often than not, expectations are never met. And if you are the kind that worries a lot when someone is not happy or pleased with you, you end up in a state of constant worry. This could leave you depressed. People of many shades or double standard people are ...